Today I was pumped for the second deed, but what to do? I can foresee this challenge getting interesting for my intrapersonal communication side. (Yes, I am applying my courses to my fun-ness and yes, I know I am a nerd :) As Evan told me - kindness is difficult to force, typically it just happens. Very true… darn.
Anyways, I do not have a parking pass and bless my class's little heart that starts at 3:00 p.m. on Thursdays. The time when you can park on campus without getting a $50 fine is 4:00 p.m. So I had to hoof it about 5 blocks to get to the farthest corner of campus (Bio-stress). I was cold going, and when I had to walk back to my car I was a little colder and crankier. Crawling into my car I thought about how nice it would have been if someone had offered me a ride… I would have taken it because get real, who would really want to capture me. That would be pure torture for them.
As I was approaching the four-way stop by Pugsley when I saw Brittany (a fellow classmate) walking. She looked cold and was wearing heels, so I thought maybe she needed a ride. As I rolled down my window, I asked her if she wanted a ride to her car but luckily her car was in the next lot over. She declined. I thought for a split second to ask the next one coming up to the crosswalk, but decided not to. I do not want to be known as the creeper picking up lil' college kids and giving them rides. That's just not normal!
I do not count an attempt and fail as a act of kindness; therefore, as I was buying Subway I pre-bought the girl behind me a cookie. Again I hightailed it out because I don't want any awkward moments.
Noted for everyone: Offer rides, but only to selective people, otherwise you are weird.

Oh boy! Look at you go! Tomorrow is 'Make A Difference Day' for Life 96.5. Apparently the idea is to buy the car behind you's order. Clearly you're two steps ahead! :)
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