Friday, December 03, 2010

Acknowledge everyone.

Children living at the Tijuana Dump.
"To ourselves, we are great. Yet most of us live life without making a stand, contented to blend into the background of self-rendering nothingness, and when looking back feel contented at our mediocre accomplishments. Nobody remembers the person who conformed out of inadequacy. Nobody notices a patch of grass, they see the tree." - Wayne Burrow

Day three was a little different.  I am counting this as my good deed because it helped her be a little happier.  I gave a 'cheerleader' talk to Lyss.  

She has had a hectic schedule in the past month and has struggled a little bit.  Last night at 1:00 a.m. (yes that is in the middle of the night), I had to give her a pep talk.  She asked if she could meet me today at 4:00 p.m.  Sure thing.

Once I meet with her, I had to fix her computer and passwords.  I don't know a lick about technology, but for some reason my family tends to call me for help.  I get by.  It took nearly 2 hours of encouragement, telling ridiculous stories, and monkeying around with her computer to make her laugh and say those magical words - "Emily, you're so dumb.  Thanks."  That maybe a put down to some, but seeing Lyss laugh and roll her eyes at me is like Michael Buble lyrics - reassuringly wonderful.

So today I helped a love one.  I felt like this has been the best deed.  Some may argue I really shouldn't count this as a Random Act of Kindness; but if only they knew how hard it is to sit here and comfort your younger sister.  It takes a lot of time and energy to turn the frown upside down and convince her people do care.  So please reflect back: remember to acknowledge everyone, challenge yourself to notice even the smallest, shyest, and youngest one.  Everyone matters.  

Here are a few life-changing photos from my alternative spring break trip to Mexico with the University Lutheran Center.
Helping level ground at the Orphanage.

Playing games with the boys.
1, 2, 3, 4 I declare a thumb war!

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